For many years at SuperCamp, parents would ask us if we could start a program for them, to help them learn what their child is learning at SuperCamp. So we designed an intensive SuperCamp ‘crash course’ Parent Workshop for our SuperCamp parents to continue the positive SuperCamp experience and skills upon returning home with their grads.

We enjoy teaching parents many of the learning and life skills their students discover at SuperCamp. Here are nine great tips/reminders for parents to support their children at home and help motivate teens throughout the school year:

1. Really listen. Don’t try to listen while doing something else. Put your chores aside so your teen knows you are paying attention.

2. Take the long view. Remember, minor mishaps aren’t major catastrophes. All incidents provide opportunities to practice good communication. Often, categorizing incidents according to their importance will help keep responses and consequences appropriate. Choose only the most important issues to evoke the strongest consequences.

3. Make time for being together. Find activities you enjoy doing together and pursue them. If your invitation gets turned down, keep trying.

4. Tolerate differences. View your teenager as an individual distinct from you. However, this doesn’t mean you can’t state your opinion if you disagree.

5. Respect your teen’s privacy. Just because he/she wants to keep their door locked, doesn’t mean he/she is doing anything you wouldn’t approve of. But if a behavior is worrying you, speak up.

6. State facts instead of opinions when you praise or discuss problems. Ask your teen to demonstrate “OTFD” – a communication tool we use at SuperCamp.

O – is an objective observation about the situation.
T – is a thought or opinion about what you observed.
F – is a feeling you had about what you observed.
D – is what you want, your desire or outcome of the situation.

Practicing this together is great for keeping the doors open!

7. Ask your teen about his/her learning style. Knowing there are differences goes a long way toward explaining why we have problems understanding and communicating with some people and not with others. When you know what cues he/she picks up on most easily (visual, auditory or kinesthetic), you can take steps to help him/her learn faster and more easily.

8. Support a positive attitude about learning. Create a positive study environment that includes appropriate reference materials, music and reminders that he/she is intelligent (like old report cards, awards, notes from teachers). It is also helpful to demonstrate your own positive feelings about learning.

9. Celebrate success! Positive feedback goes a long way to encourage repeat behavior. Each accomplishment by a family member deserves acknowledgement, whether verbal or by means of a special treat, like a trip to the movies, a special dessert, or posting on the bulletin board.

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Bobbi DePorter, teen motivation and accelerated learning expert, has changed the lives of over four million kids through her SuperCamp and Quantum Learning school programs. SuperCamp is a learning and life skills summer program with more than 53,000 graduates in the U.S., Europe, Asia and Latin America. Quantum Learning is an accelerated learning-based teaching and learning methodology that has helped improve thousands of schools and districts across the nation. Bobbi is the author of more than a dozen books, including The Seven Biggest Teen Problems and how to turn them into Strengths (An Insider’s Look at What Works with Teens). 

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The Senior Forum
SuperCamp’s Senior Forum is an innovative, 10-day summer camp for teens that teaches teens how to unlock their hidden potential and use it to take on the challenges that they will encounter in high school, while preparing them for college as well. Students also learn the importance of critical thinking so they can apply it in their everyday life.

Here are just a few of the areas that the Senior Forum teaches in its residential 10-day summer camp:

Academic Techniques
In Senior Forum, students learn the secrets of quantum learning strategies that will help them in their quest to academic excellence. These learning strategies will be applicable and will remain relevant in any academic situation. Mastering these quantum strategies will significantly decrease your child’s information clutter and help them to work most efficiently.

Emotional and Relationship Strategies
High school is a difficult time for teens. With physical and hormonal changes bombarding their daily life, it is no surprise to see most of them succumbing to stress. To help teens deal with the overwhelming stress accompanied by their growth process and increasing academic work load, SuperCamp teaches emotional and relationship strategies to keep all aspects of their life in balance.

Reputation Management
The internet has played a significant role in this generation. Most teens thrive on social media sites like Facebook, Instagram, Twitter and Tumblr, without realizing that they may be endangering their reputation by posting questionable content in their accounts. SuperCamp Senior Forum strives to enlighten teens by teaching them how to become responsible internet denizens. Students will realize the importance of internet ethics and will become more prudent and responsible in their social media use. Now that most college recruiters and employers use social media to screen applicants, it is in the student’s best interest to keep his image clean and protect himself against the harmful implications of a bad online reputation.

The Eight Keys of Excellence
The Eight Keys of Excellence are a set of core principles designed to mold your children into individuals brimming with excellence. This is the foundation on which SuperCamp is built, and it is the most important part of the entire Senior Forum experience. Aristotle once attributed excellence as a habit, and immersing teens in the Eight Keys of Excellence will significantly help them in becoming great individuals who will change the world. The Eight Keys of Excellence are: integrity, failure leads to success, speak with good purpose, “this is it!,” commitment, ownership, flexibility, and balance.

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